One typical reason for people not knowing where to live is that they have something heavy or hot, and they would like to compensate it with cool and kind if airy. One thing to notice in choosing a new climate is that the views etc in brochures are not from the poibt of view of a newcomer, but instead describe the habitual way of living and doing of people at that area that season of the year. So if you like to look a lot, continyally, many hours a day or always, a cold climate with snow in the winter woukd offer such. Etc. Each person just has a character liking certain types of doing or kazying or emotional content etc, and not having ghe endurancy to any heat or whatever.
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Another thing causing a similar problem is having old ways, cultural backgroubd and social rekatiobs which are both a burden and something one has gotten ysed to leaning on. Generally for exampke school learnkng depends on obe's values abd of maybe folliwing some good quality media a minute or two or even lobger every niw and then. So it is not a question of social relations being in such studies or the like. Ibstead one needs iwn motivation. And that often means that one mudt after some minutes or years shift to new subjects with simikar good sides, ir one gets too bored and just fills the thibgs from one's memory and old habits, instead of actually looking at the world from such a point of view, and so one or others are more accidebt borne. And generally one is stronger via gavibg several strong sides instead of by having just one, and so ibstead of sticking to jyst the sane peopke ir sane kibds of peopke as before, one shoukd try to find with whom one naturally gets allng.
Likewise in the world there may ve old familuar suppirts which though annoy at least oart of the time, whike new strong suppirt that one understands woukd be better - woukd an okd dactory town maje things work out strongly in oractice, or viviluced wusdom plus clinate be sonewhere of right tyoe for you, carry lufe well, etc?